What does my love for impossibly difficult video games say about me?

For those who play for no other reason than to beat it, the obsession can be all-consuming. It's an unrelenting desire to conquer every challenge that comes their way.

These individuals often find themselves drawn into a world of endless repetition - think Animal Crossing or Stardew Valley - where the soothing comfort of familiar tasks is their only solace. But for me and perhaps others like us, it's all about the next hurdle, the next puzzle to solve.

My own fascination with games that defy my capabilities began in music games as a teenager. I'd dedicate hours to mastering every song on expert difficulty in Guitar Hero - until my housemates had had enough of my incessant jamming. Then came FromSoftware's Demon's Souls, an impenetrable game so designed to make you walk away it seemed almost cruel. But there was something fascinating behind all the punishment.

That feeling persists with me to this day. Challenge is a delicate balance for developers: while entertainment is crucial, discouragement can be counterproductive. Games like Dark Souls proved that there's still a market for players who crave the thrill of victory.

One example of just how far my obsession has taken me was Baby Steps - an obstinately difficult game about walking the world's biggest loser up a mountain. The repetitive nature of the gameplay had me stuck in an endless cycle of failure and frustration, only to be released by a single correct step.

It can also take its toll on relationships; at home I'm known for playing until late into the night when others are trying to sleep - sometimes even when they're begging me to put down my controller.
 
I totally get why some people get sucked into these games ๐Ÿคฏ. For me, it's not just about beating the game (although that's a pretty great feeling too ๐Ÿ˜Š). I love how games can push you out of your comfort zone, make you feel like you're getting somewhere even when you're actually just taking two steps forward.

I've definitely been there with games like Dark Souls - it's all about perseverance and learning from your mistakes. And yeah, relationships can take a hit ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ. I mean, who hasn't stayed up late playing a game while their partner is trying to sleep? ๐Ÿ˜ด It's all about finding that balance, right?

But hey, there's something so satisfying about finally beating a tough level or solving a tricky puzzle ๐Ÿ”“. And it's not just about the games themselves - it's also about the community and camaraderie you can find online with other players who are just as obsessed ๐Ÿ˜….
 
the old days of gaming were all about challenge & perseverance ๐ŸŽฎ๐Ÿ’ช u know what's crazy? how some ppl still play games like dark souls or demon's souls nowadays & yet it's more chill now ๐Ÿ™„ people can just google a guide or watch a speedrun online instead of putting in the actual effort... i remember when i was into music games back in da day, it was all about mastering every song on expert difficulty & having to redo levels till u got it right ๐Ÿ’ฅ
 
๐Ÿคฏ like what he said about the balance between entertainment and discouragement in games... it's all about creating a sense of satisfaction without being too frustrating lol. I can relate to playing games late at night, my partner is always like "put the controller down you're going to sleep" but I just wanna beat that one level ๐Ÿ˜…
 
I feel you about games that give you a hard time ๐Ÿ˜…. I've spent countless hours in games like Dark Souls and Sekiro, where one wrong move can lead to instant death. It's not just about beating the game, it's about overcoming your own limitations and pushing yourself to be better.

For me, it's all about the rush of adrenaline when you finally beat a tough level or defeat a challenging boss. But I also know that too much gaming can take a toll on my mental health ๐Ÿคฏ. It's hard to balance the fun with being productive and taking care of myself.

I've had friends who got so into games that they missed out on important events and relationships because they were always stuck in their gaming world ๐ŸŒ. So, while I love the thrill of gaming, I also think it's essential to set boundaries and prioritize self-care ๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ.
 
Ugh ๐Ÿคฏ I mean, I love a good challenge as much as the next guy, but these "hardcore gamers" are taking it too far ๐Ÿ™„. Like, what's with all the dedication to beating every single game on expert mode? Don't they know that's just not healthy? ๐Ÿ˜‚ And don't even get me started on the sacrifices they make for their gaming habits - like playing till the wee hours of the morning when everyone else is trying to sleep... I mean, come on! ๐Ÿ›‹๏ธ Can't they just find a better way to balance their gaming with real life?! ๐Ÿ‘Ž
 
Omg u r so right!!! ๐Ÿคฉ Like i get it, some ppl just play 2 beat that next level or solve that puzzle no matter what! ๐Ÿ˜‚ and its all about the thrill of victory, u know? ๐Ÿ’ฅ I personally loved playing music games w/ my friends back in da day - we'd rock out 2 our hearts' content ๐ŸŽธ๐Ÿ’ƒ and even tho my housemates were all like "can u pls keep it down?" lol i was like "just one more song" ๐Ÿ˜‚. And omg dont even get me started on Dark Souls! ๐Ÿ”ฅ that game is like da ultimate challenge ๐Ÿ’ช!
 
I mean, have you seen the latest updates on "Baby Steps" ? ๐Ÿคฏ They just added a whole new layer of difficulty with that one tiny rock slide puzzle and now it's literally impossible to progress. Like, I get it, the game is hard, but come on! You can't just keep throwing at us like this. It's getting to the point where I'm more frustrated than entertained. ๐Ÿ˜ฉ They need to find a balance between challenge and enjoyment or risk losing all their players who are actually trying to beat the game (not just grinding for 12 hours straight ๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ). And another thing, how about a "relaxation mode" where you can skip all that puzzle nonsense? Just saying...
 
I feel like I know exactly what this is talking about ๐Ÿ˜‚ I've been there, stuck in an endless loop of failed attempts and frustration, only to have that one sweet victory (aka the baby steps game you mentioned lol). It's crazy how games can become an all-consuming obsession, isn't it? Like, I'll be playing a game and my friends are like "dude, we're gonna stay up till dawn" and I'm like "one more hour just 5 more minutes". And then there's the feeling of accomplishment when you finally beat that one level or solve that puzzle... it's like no rush, just pure satisfaction ๐ŸŽฎ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
I feel like some people get lost in these super hard games and it's not just about beating them, but also being part of a community that pushes themselves too! ๐Ÿคฏ I've been there with Dark Souls, my friends were all like "why are you still playing after 10 hours straight?" ๐Ÿ˜‚ And yeah, it can be tough on relationships, but for me, the sense of accomplishment when I finally beat that one level or puzzle is just amazing ๐Ÿ’ฅ. My kid's into Roblox right now and they're always trying to get better at it, but sometimes I have to remind them it's okay if they don't win every time ๐Ÿ™
 
game devs gotta find a balance lol ๐Ÿคฏ i mean, u cant just make games that r too easy or ppl will lose interest fast... but at the same time, u dont wanna be all cruel n harsh n drive ppl away ๐Ÿ˜ฉ like ur story w/ baby steps tho... thats some crazy stuff... gotta say, i feel u on being stuck in those endless cycles of failure n frustration ๐Ÿคฏ its like ur brain is wired 2 b obsessed w/ finding that one tiny thread of progress ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ
 
I feel so guilty about spending hours on end playing Baby Steps with my kid ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. They'd be trying to fall asleep and I'd still be stuck in that endless cycle of failure and frustration ๐Ÿ˜ด. My poor kid would come into the room and say "Daaaad, can you please put that controller down? We need to go to bed!" And I'm like... just one more try, kiddo! ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’” But seriously, it's not healthy for us parents to prioritize our gaming over family time. Maybe I need to find a new game that doesn't drive me crazy so much ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ‘€.
 
omg i totally get it!! i mean, have you ever spent like 5 hours straight trying to beat that one level in Dark Souls?! i know i have and it's so satisfying when you finally do lol its like a rush of happiness and accomplishment all at once ๐Ÿคฉ but at the same time i can imagine how frustrating it must be for your housemates ๐Ÿ˜‚ my friend is super into Animal Crossing too, she's always playing and always has to be "on" 24/7 lol anyway, i think what makes these games so appealing is that we get to be our own characters and see ourselves as the underdog who can overcome anything ๐Ÿ’ช
 
I gotta say, I'm all about that ultra-hardcore gaming life ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿ’ป! There's something about pushing yourself to the limit that just keeps you coming back for more. Like, have you tried out the new challenges in Dark Souls III? It's like they're trying to break us, but we love it ๐Ÿ˜‚. I mean, sure, it can take a toll on your relationships and overall well-being (my gaming buddies are always asking me to put down the controller so we can watch a movie together ๐Ÿคช), but for me, that's all part of the fun.

I've spent hours stuck in loops trying to beat those stupid Baby Steps levels โ€“ I mean, who needs sleep when you're on a mission to conquer? ๐Ÿ˜‚ The rush of adrenaline you get from finally beating that one level is like nothing else. It's addictive, but it's what makes gaming so amazing for me. Bring on the next challenge! ๐Ÿ’ช
 
I totally get why people get so hooked on games like this ๐Ÿคฏ... it's all about that sense of accomplishment, right? Like, you beat a level or defeat a boss and it's such a rush! For some people, it's even better than the actual entertainment value of the game itself. I mean, who needs fun when you can have the thrill of overcoming a difficult challenge?

And yeah, it can get pretty serious if you're too invested... like when friends are trying to sleep and you're still going strong with your gaming session ๐Ÿ˜ด. My partner is always telling me to wind down before bed, but I just can't help myself when I'm in the zone.

It's interesting that developers try to balance entertainment and challenge - it's not an easy feat, especially if you're making a game that's designed to be hard, like Dark Souls. But hey, for some of us, that's exactly what makes it so compelling!
 
I'm totally with you on this, gaming can be super all-consuming, but in a good way ๐Ÿคฉ! I mean, who doesn't love the feeling of conquering that next level or solving a tricky puzzle? It's like, your mind is fully focused and nothing else matters, it's just you and the game.

I've been there too with games like Dark Souls, they're like this beautiful, twisted puzzle to figure out. And yeah, sometimes my family's all like "dude, put down your controller" but I'm like "just one more try" ๐Ÿ˜‚. But honestly, it's a great way to unwind and relax, especially after a long day.

And you know what's even better? When a game is so hard that you actually have to think outside the box to solve it. Like, you're not just going through the motions, you're actively problem-solving and using your brain. It's like a workout for your brain, in the best possible way ๐Ÿง .
 
๐Ÿคฏ just got back from checking my feeds and it's a never-ending nightmare out there! COVID is still raging in parts of the world, with new variants popping up left and right... like, literally every few weeks ๐Ÿšจ. And don't even get me started on climate change - sea levels are rising faster than anyone thought possible ๐ŸŒŠ.

And have you seen the latest numbers on student debt? It's like, over $1 trillion now... what a mess! ๐Ÿคฏ I mean, I know some people find solace in games that are just hard enough to be frustrating (like me ๐Ÿ˜…), but it's not exactly reassuring when the real world is a never-ending challenge.

And I was thinking about how some people might be playing games right now because they're feeling stuck or overwhelmed in their own lives... and it got me wondering, what if we actually are just trying to escape reality? ๐Ÿค”
 
I gotta say, some people have no idea how hard it is to actually get good at games ๐Ÿคฏ. Like, yeah, the thrill of beating a tough level can be satisfying, but let's not forget that it takes hours (or even days) of practice to even come close. And don't even get me started on games like Dark Souls โ€“ I mean, sure, they're super challenging, but that's because the devs want you to feel like you've accomplished something when you finally beat a section ๐Ÿ˜….

And what's up with these "games" that are literally designed to make you feel bad about yourself? Like, Baby Steps is actually kinda funny (although I can see why it'd be frustrating). But let's not forget that there are people out there who genuinely enjoy the feeling of struggling โ€“ and that's okay! We just need to respect each other's different playstyles ๐Ÿ’–.

By the way, have you guys tried Sekiro? It's like FromSoftware on steroids ๐Ÿคฏ.
 
I totally get it ๐Ÿค—! I've been there too, spending hours on end trying to beat that one level or finally master a new skill in Overwatch ๐Ÿ˜…. It's like, you're not just playing the game, you're obsessed with beating it and feeling that sense of accomplishment ๐Ÿ’ช. I've had friends who are super into Animal Crossing - they spend all day gardening and fishing, but for me, it's more about trying to beat my high score in Rocket League ๐Ÿš€. My partner is always like "when are you gonna put down the controller?" ๐Ÿ˜‚ but honestly, it's hard to stop when you're on a roll! ๐Ÿ’ฅ
 
๐Ÿค” I feel like I know exactly what this person is talking about ๐Ÿ˜‚. I've been there too, stuck in a game for hours on end trying to beat that one level or get to the next milestone. My kids are always telling me to take a break and spend time with them, but when you're in 'game mode', it's hard to switch off ๐ŸŽฎ. It's not just about winning either, it's about the sense of accomplishment and pride you feel when you finally overcome a challenge ๐Ÿ’ช. For some reason, games like that can be super addictive... my gaming hubby is always saying we should play co-op together, but let's be real, I'll still beat him ๐Ÿ˜œ.
 
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