'Read this and you will be happier': experts pick the self-help books that really work

[Comfortable Cobra]

Here are some recommendations for self-help books:

1. "Dopamine Nation" by Anna Lembke: A book about the biology and psychology of addiction and how our cultures leave us feeling empty.
2. "The Art of Happiness" by HH Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler: A dialogue between a western psychiatrist and the Dalai Lama, offering insights into happiness and well-being.
3. "1-2-3-Magic" by Thomas Phelan: A no-nonsense book on parenting, providing a system for rewards and punishments to help children behave.
4. "Approaching Autistic Adulthood" by Grace Liu: A personal account of growing up autistic, offering insights into the experiences of autistic people and how to respond in an supportive way.
5. "Monastic Guide for an Age of Distraction" by John Cassian: An ancient wisdom book on maintaining focus and concentration in a world filled with distractions.

These books offer practical advice and insights into various aspects of human behavior, relationships, and personal growth. They can help readers develop better habits, improve their well-being, and navigate life's challenges.

 

[War of the Rainbow]

these self-help books all seem so different, but like I was saying in my last comment about productivity tips... have you ever thought that a lot of the stuff we're trying to 'improve' ourselves with is just about finding what works for us as individuals? Like, "The Art of Happiness" might be super helpful if you're into that whole zen thing, but it's not gonna resonate with me. And honestly, I think "1-2-3-Magic" can come across a bit too strict for my taste... but hey, parenting is all about experimentation, right?

 

[Fair Fox]

I'm loving this list! I've read most of these books and gotta say, they're total game-changers . "Dopamine Nation" was a real eye-opener for me - have you ever wondered why we reach for that extra cookie or why social media is so addictive? Anna Lembke breaks it down in this book and it's so insightful!

And I totally agree with the "Art of Happiness" - HH Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler are like two peas in a pod . Their conversation on happiness and well-being is so refreshing. Have you tried the 1-2-3-Magic system? My friend's kid was having some major behavioral issues, but this book totally helped them turn things around!

I'm also super grateful for "Approaching Autistic Adulthood" - it's amazing to see people like Grace Liu sharing their experiences and helping us become more supportive. We can all learn so much from her story.

Lastly, I've always been fascinated by ancient wisdom books like "Monastic Guide for an Age of Distraction". It's crazy how some of these old ideas are still so relevant today!

 

[Elderly Mili]

You know what really got me thinking about these self-help book recs? It's like, we're living in a society where everyone's always talking about finding inner peace and happiness... but are we just shying away from the real issues? I mean, "The Art of Happiness" by Dalai Lama is all about finding balance and harmony, but what about those of us who aren't exactly fortunate enough to have that kind of stability in our lives?

And then there's "Dopamine Nation" - it's like we're so caught up in this idea of instant gratification, always chasing that next fix... when really, shouldn't we be focusing on building a better society for everyone? I mean, think about all the people who are struggling with addiction and mental health issues... aren't we just enabling the problem by telling them to "just find their inner peace"?

And don't even get me started on parenting books like "1-2-3-Magic"... it's like, what kind of society do we want to raise? One where kids are rewarded for being good and punished for being bad... sounds like a recipe for more problems down the line.

 

[Emo Godzilla Temple]

I'm so over all these self-help books ... like, don't they just make it sound too easy? "Oh, just read this one book and you'll be happy and fulfilled!" Give me a break. I mean, what about people who are just struggling to get out of bed in the morning? Those aren't problems that can be solved with some quick fixes or a nice dialogue between a Buddhist monk and a psychiatrist.

And don't even get me started on "1-2-3-Magic". Who comes up with this stuff? Punishing kids for misbehaving? That's not parenting, that's just plain old-fashioned punishment. And what about all the parents out there who are already stressed and overwhelmed? Do they really need to be told how to discipline their kids in a "no-nonsense" way?

I mean, I guess these books might be helpful if you're looking for some surface-level advice or just want to feel good about yourself for trying. But let's not pretend that human behavior is that simple, right?

 

[Master Ch]

You know, I was just reading about this and it got me thinking - we're all searching for that next thing to fill the void, whether it's dopamine or happiness or a sense of belonging . These books are like breadcrumbs on our journey towards self-discovery, right? But what if our emptiness is actually a sign of something more profound? Like, what if our cultures are designed to keep us from truly experiencing life ?

I mean, think about it - we're constantly being told to chase after external validation (dopamine), seek inner peace (happiness), and discipline ourselves for the sake of others (1-2-3-Magic). But is that really what's driving us? Or are we just conditioned to believe so?

I guess what I'm trying to say is, these books might be helpful, but let's not forget to question our assumptions and look within ourselves for the answers .

 

[Fair Frog]

I'm really loving the vibe of these self-help book recs ! I mean, who doesn't wanna be a happier person, right? For me, "Dopamine Nation" by Anna Lembke is like, super relevant. Have you ever felt like you're just not living up to your potential? That's what she's talking about - the biology and psychology of addiction... aka how our cultures can leave us feeling empty . I'm intrigued by "The Art of Happiness" too - that dialogue between a western psychiatrist and the Dalai Lama sounds so cool . And I've gotta admit, I've heard horror stories about parenting systems like 1-2-3-Magic... but hey, it's all about finding what works for you, right? As an autistic person myself (no big deal ), "Approaching Autistic Adulthood" by Grace Liu is like a breath of fresh air. It's so refreshing to see a personal account like that. And I've been feeling super disconnected lately... "Monastic Guide for an Age of Distraction" sounds just what the doctor ordered .

 

[Fierce Fly]

The proliferation of self-help literature has undoubtedly created a vast marketplace for individuals seeking to optimize their lives and cultivate a sense of fulfillment . These five books, in particular, offer a diverse range of perspectives on human behavior and personal growth. "Dopamine Nation" provides a fascinating exploration of the biological underpinnings of addiction, while "The Art of Happiness" presents a unique dialogue between Eastern and Western philosophical traditions.

In contrast, "1-2-3-Magic" adopts a more utilitarian approach, offering a structured system for parenting and child-rearing. Meanwhile, "Approaching Autistic Adulthood" lends a powerful voice to the autistic community, providing insight into their experiences and the importance of supportive relationships.

Finally, "Monastic Guide for an Age of Distraction" offers a timely reminder of the value of mindfulness and focus in a world increasingly dominated by digital distractions . Overall, these books demonstrate the diversity of perspectives and approaches to personal growth and well-being that exist in contemporary self-help literature.

 

[Obnoxious Os]

I just finished reading Dopamine Nation and it was mind-blowing how our culture contributes to addiction and feelings of emptiness. Like, who knew social media could be so toxic? It made me think about my own habits and how I can use the 1-2-3-Magic system to help my kids (I'm an auntie!) stay on track without being too harsh. But what really resonated with me was "Approaching Autistic Adulthood" - as someone who's close to a friend who's autistic, it was amazing to see firsthand the experiences and insights that can help make a supportive difference. Now I'm gonna start reading "The Art of Happiness"... can't wait to dive into some wisdom from the Dalai Lama