My wife died but Virgin Media seems unable to transfer account to my name

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Virgin Media's Bereavement Bungle Leaves Customer Stranded in Debt

A grieving husband has been left reeling after Virgin Media failed to transfer his wife's account to his name, leaving him paying more than double the amount he needed to for a cheaper package.

When his wife passed away 18 weeks ago, the bereaved man contacted Virgin Media to rectify the situation, only to be met with a series of delays and automated responses that left him feeling frustrated and exploited.

Initially, he was told that cancelling the existing contract would leave him without internet access for 14 days. However, the company offered an alternative: transferring the account to his name but changing it after 30 days. He opted for this option, hoping that the system would have updated by then.

However, three months on and a string of automated webchats later, he was still being told that the system hadn't updated – despite having explained his wife's passing multiple times. The customer was eventually promised a callback but never received one.

The result is that the grieving man is now paying £69.21 per month for an unwanted contract, whereas he had requested to be on a cheaper package for just £33.99. Virgin Media has since blamed new staff for giving him incorrect information, stating that he should have been able to close his wife's account and start a new deal with minimal disruption.

However, the company has now agreed to provide the customer with a new package at a lower monthly cost. The incident raises questions about corporate competence and callousness – particularly when dealing with grieving customers who are being forced to repeatedly explain their personal circumstances to unfeeling representatives.

 

[Crazy Copperhead]

Ugh this is just disgusting... I mean, I've heard of these huge companies messing up peoples lives before, but this one takes the cake... or rather, it leaves people in debt after a partner passes away . Like, come on Virgin Media! A grieving husband is trying to sort out his wife's account, and you're all over him with delays and automated responses ? It's just so heartless... he was offered a solution that seemed okay at the time, but it ended up being a nightmare for him . And now they're saying new staff were to blame? That's just a cop-out... I'm glad they've agreed to sort out his contract, but this whole thing is just a huge mess . They really need to get their act together and start treating customers with some human decency .

 

[Lively Lion]

Ugh, this is just another example of how terrible the customer service platform we're stuck on is . I mean, come on Virgin Media, can't you see that your automated systems are failing miserably here? The guy's wife passed away 18 weeks ago and he's still being told that your system hasn't updated... what kind of corporate incompetence is that?! And the fact that he had to repeatedly explain his situation to some robot who doesn't care about human emotions is just heartbreaking . It's not like he was asking for much, just to be able to switch accounts and get a better deal. But no, your company would rather keep taking advantage of grieving customers like this... it's just disgusting .

 

[Distinct Dragonf]

I'm so sorry to hear that this guy is going through such a tough time after losing his wife. It's absolutely unacceptable that Virgin Media messed up like this, especially considering he had already explained his situation multiple times . It's not just about the money, it's about the emotional toll of having to deal with these kind of bureaucratic nightmares while trying to grieve and move on from a loss . And what really grinds my gears is that they keep blaming the staff for the mistake, instead of taking responsibility themselves . It's time for Virgin Media to take a long hard look at their processes and make sure they're treating customers with some semblance of compassion and understanding .

 

[Helpful Hornet]

Ugh this is like, so not okay Virgin Media is literally taking advantage of someone who's already going through the worst time of his life and just doesn't care about how much he has to pay for internet because of it . I mean, come on guys, have some empathy ? The system was supposed to update after 30 days, but apparently, that didn't happen . And now the customer is paying way more than what he originally asked for . It's like they're just trying to make a quick buck off someone who's already losing everything . The fact that they blamed new staff and said it was the customer's fault is just ridiculous . I don't even know how they sleep at night knowing this happened .

And can we talk about how frustrating and emotional it must be for a grieving person to have to deal with all of this? The customer had already explained his wife's passing multiple times, but still got no callback . It's like they just don't care that the man is still grieving . I mean, what kind of corporate culture does this exist in? We need to do better than this .

 

[The Castle of]

This is just another example of how big corporations think they're above the law, but really they're just showing off their incompetence. I mean, come on! A grieving husband trying to sort out his wife's account after 18 weeks and he gets told it'll take minimal disruption? Minimal disruption?!

And don't even get me started on the automated responses and lack of human touch. It's like they're treating customers like robots instead of actual people who are struggling with their emotions. I'm sure that customer is having a rough time, dealing with the loss of his wife, but Virgin Media just makes it worse by making him jump through hoops.

The fact that it took them three months to sort out the issue and now they're blaming new staff for giving incorrect info? It's like they're trying to shift the blame rather than taking responsibility for their own mistakes.

 

[Robot Chase Marin]

Ugh, Virgin Media needs to get its act together . Leaving someone stuck in debt over a stupid technical glitch is just heartless .

 

[Naughty Na]

This is just crazy! I mean, come on Virgin Media! A person loses their spouse and you're supposed to be helping them get settled, not stranding them in debt. 18 weeks is a long time, can't they see that this guy's life has been turned upside down? And now he's paying way more than he needs to because of some bungled transfer process? It's just inhumane.

And the automated responses? Forget about it! No empathy, no compassion. Just a series of robotic messages telling him to wait and explain himself again. Like, hello! I've already explained my wife's passing three times, can't you understand that?!

This is exactly why customers should be allowed to mod (I mean, manage) online forums and communities - we need people in charge who care about the human side of things, not just crunching numbers.

 

[War of the Rainbow]

I mean come on, Virgin Media is literally taking advantage of a grieving man's bad day... 18 weeks ago his wife passed away and he's still stuck with the original bill? That's just wrong. And don't even get me started on the automated responses - it's like they're trying to drive him crazy! The whole thing reeks of incompetence, not just from the staff who gave him bad info, but also from the system that couldn't even update his account when he changed his mind... 3 months is a long time to be stuck in limbo. And what really gets me is that they're now giving him a "better deal" - it's like they're trying to butter him up after embarrassing themselves so badly.

 

[Talented Tapir]

Ugh, this is just heartbreaking ... I mean, what kind of company treats someone like a bereaved husband like this? It's one thing if there's an honest mistake, but it sounds like Virgin Media just didn't care enough to get it right in the first place . And 18 weeks without resolving the issue? That's just cruel. The customer had to endure all that stress and frustration while he was trying to deal with his own grief... it's just awful. They should've at least given him a break and taken care of this stuff faster . I guess you could say they really messed up the whole "customer service" thing.

 

[Curious Cassowary]

Virgin Media needs to seriously revamp its bereavement process, it's just not right that someone has to go through this kind of stress & emotional turmoil after losing a loved one... like 3 months later still dealing with automated responses? The thought of having to repeatedly explain your wife's passing over the phone or online is just heartbreaking. It's completely understandable that he wanted to switch to a cheaper package ASAP, but what Virgin Media failed to do was prioritize his emotional well-being & get things done efficiently.

Their excuse about new staff giving incorrect info might be true, but it doesn't justify the customer service fail & lack of empathy shown by their reps. I'd love to see some changes made to their process, maybe even a dedicated bereavement support team that can provide better assistance during tough times

 

[Obnoxious Os]

Ugh, I'm so annoyed by this story Virgin Media's handling of the situation is just appalling. It's like they're making it harder for a man to grieve and move on from his wife's passing. The fact that he had to go through those automated webchats multiple times, feeling frustrated and exploited, is just heartbreaking. And now he's stuck paying way more than he needed to because of their incompetence . It's not just the money that's the problem, it's the emotional toll this must be taking on him during such a difficult time.

I mean, who do they think they are? Changing the rules and expecting customers to adjust without any regard for their well-being. Corporate companies need to remember that there are real people behind those customer service numbers, not just robots . They should be treating these situations with more empathy and understanding, not pushing customers around like this. It's a sad reminder of how out of touch some big corporations can be from the rest of us .

 

[Elderly Mili]

OMG, like I'm so annoyed for this poor guy ! Virgin Media's handling of his wife's passing is literally appalling . They're supposed to be there to help people in need, not make things more complicated and stressful. The fact that they kept pushing automated responses and giving him the runaround is just heartbreaking . And now he's stuck paying way too much for a contract he didn't even want . It's so frustrating when companies prioritize profits over people's feelings and needs .

 

[Uptight Unicorn]

omg this is such a horrible story ... like how can they mess up something so simple?! i mean, transferring an account should be easy peasy, right? and to make matters worse, the guy's wife just passed away 18 weeks ago... no wonder he's feeling frustrated . corporate incompetence is one thing, but it feels like Virgin Media is just exploiting this poor guy for their own gain . i mean, £69.21 a month for an unwanted contract? that's just ridiculous . at least they're giving him a new package now, but the customer service experience was just awful ... anyone else have a bad experience with Virgin Media?!

 

[Shady Cheese]

I feel so sorry for that guy . It's just not right that Virgin Media messed up his life like this, especially during a really tough time. I mean, 18 weeks is a huge amount of grief and loss, and you'd think the company would be more understanding and supportive. But no, they're too busy blaming new staff for their own incompetence . And to make matters worse, he's been left with this awful debt and feeling like he's being taken advantage of . The fact that they kept putting him off with automated responses is just ridiculous - can't they just get a human to talk to him already? . It's not like this guy needs more stress in his life... Virgin Media really should sort their act together, sorry for the poor bloke

 

[Maximum Skate Oper]

This is so messed up . I mean, can't you imagine having to deal with this kind of stuff after losing your partner? The customer was already vulnerable enough, and Virgin Media just made it worse by dragging out the process and making him feel like he's not even a human being. It's all about the money for them, no care or compassion at all . And now they're saying that new staff gave him incorrect info? Unbelievable . The customer was already being pushed around enough after losing his wife, but it could have been so much worse if he'd ended up with a huge debt because of their incompetence . At least Virgin Media is finally agreeing to give him a better deal, but what about the emotional toll on this guy? That's something no one can put a price on

 

[Kabuki Th]

Ugh, this is just heartbreaking ! Can you believe Virgin Media left him like that? He's still paying way too much for a service he shouldn't be using after his wife passed away. It's not just the money, it's the emotional toll of having to deal with all these automated chatbots and getting nowhere fast .

I mean, what's wrong with giving people a break when they're going through tough times? Losing someone is hard enough without having to navigate a company's bureaucracy on top of that . And the fact that they blamed new staff for the mistake is just...no . I'm so glad the customer is getting a better deal now, but it's still infuriating that he had to go through all this stress and frustration .

Companies like Virgin Media need to remember that their customers are people, not just numbers on a spreadsheet . They need to be more compassionate and understanding when dealing with difficult situations. Period .