Heather Fisher, a former England and Team GB rugby player, has opened up about her struggles with identity, resilience, and acceptance after being diagnosed with alopecia, an autoimmune condition that causes hair loss. The 41-year-old retired from professional rugby four years ago, but the journey to come to terms with her new reality began long before then.
For Fisher, losing her hair was not just a physical change, but also a confrontation with her identity as a woman in sport. She felt like she didn't fit into societal norms of femininity and struggled to accept her new appearance. "As a female, I don't ever feel like I fitted in," she said. The experience left deep scars, including instances where people made unwanted comments or even threw wigs at her.
However, Fisher has found strength in embracing her uniqueness. She believes that the sporting world has made progress in accepting women of all shapes and sizes, but there is still work to be done. "We can put a woman out there and they might have muscles and they might have a certain way of looking, but they still look feminine," she explained. But for those with conditions like alopecia, it's not that simple.
Fisher's message is one of resilience and self-acceptance. She has forged a new career as a motivational speaker, rugby pundit, and leadership consultant, using her experiences to inspire others. "It's made me really resilient and I really, truly believe that I was born to stand out," she said.
The sports world has come a long way in embracing diversity, but there is still room for growth. Social media platforms like TikTok have played a significant role in shifting perceptions, allowing athletes to share their stories and break the mould. Fisher believes that by sharing her own experiences, she can help others feel more confident and accepting of themselves.
As for what she would change if given the chance, Fisher said, "I'd be able to do a hair flick but it would do my head in and it would make me itchy so I wouldn't change it. It's made me who I am today." She is proud of her new identity and refuses to let society dictate how she should look or feel.
For Fisher, losing her hair was not just a physical change, but also a confrontation with her identity as a woman in sport. She felt like she didn't fit into societal norms of femininity and struggled to accept her new appearance. "As a female, I don't ever feel like I fitted in," she said. The experience left deep scars, including instances where people made unwanted comments or even threw wigs at her.
However, Fisher has found strength in embracing her uniqueness. She believes that the sporting world has made progress in accepting women of all shapes and sizes, but there is still work to be done. "We can put a woman out there and they might have muscles and they might have a certain way of looking, but they still look feminine," she explained. But for those with conditions like alopecia, it's not that simple.
Fisher's message is one of resilience and self-acceptance. She has forged a new career as a motivational speaker, rugby pundit, and leadership consultant, using her experiences to inspire others. "It's made me really resilient and I really, truly believe that I was born to stand out," she said.
The sports world has come a long way in embracing diversity, but there is still room for growth. Social media platforms like TikTok have played a significant role in shifting perceptions, allowing athletes to share their stories and break the mould. Fisher believes that by sharing her own experiences, she can help others feel more confident and accepting of themselves.
As for what she would change if given the chance, Fisher said, "I'd be able to do a hair flick but it would do my head in and it would make me itchy so I wouldn't change it. It's made me who I am today." She is proud of her new identity and refuses to let society dictate how she should look or feel.